Sunday, January 3, 2010

Resolution Blog

For myself (Ian)
  1. To focus increasingly on that which makes our family happy and less on that does not.
  2. To speak with purpose, clarity, and understanding and less with words that could be construed as unnecessarily negative or divisive.
For Staci
  1. For a smooth and wonderful second preganancy.
For Mia
  1. For daily smiles, constant learning, and lots of love and happiness.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

A year later. We miss you mom. Judy Wallace, 54

November 15, 2009: A lot has happened over the past year. Beautiful Mia was born and seems so big now. She practically walks and talks. Our family is growing, despite the loss of a year ago. We remember fondly and know that the seeds of our growth and future remain rooted in our past. We miss you mom. Love always, Ian, Staci and Mia

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Judy Wallace, 54, a well-known singer, songwriter, performer and recording artist who also enjoyed a rewarding career as a library director in Mattapoisett and on Cape Cod, died peacefully at home early Saturday morning after a remarkable, valiant 9-year battle with brain cancer. She was the wife of David Gries. Judith Ester Wallace was born June 20, 1954 in Southington, Conn. and grew up on west-central Connecticut, attending local schools and Greer Academy in upstate New York. She began singing at a young age and performed locally with her sisters as “The Wallace Warblers.” At age 16, she hitchhiked to the West Coast, and spent time in California and northwestern Montana before returning to the East and moving to Wellfleet, Mass., on outer Cape Cod. She began collaborating with many local musicians including her future husband, Hamilton Kahn. Their fist son, Ian, was born in 1976. Matthew, their second son, was born in 1982. They divorced in 1991. Judy enjoyed a long career as an accomplished professional musician. In addition to her vocal talent, she was a skilled guitarist and harmonica player and gifted song writer. By the mid-1980s she had established The Judy Wallace Group, a changing cast of some of the area’s best musicians including Lisa Brown, Tom Fenton, Gary Locke, Bruce Abbott, Dick Wetmore, Mike Taylor, Tom Filogomo, Paul Nossiter and Rick Arnoldi, among others. The group was noteworthy and built a following by appealing to audiences of all ages, playing a combination of swing, blues, and more contemporary styles. Judy later collaborated with her husband David Gries and many other accomplished South Coast musicians, with live performances continuing throughout her battle with brain cancer. Judy was also a great lover of books, and in the 1980s resumed her formal education, earning degrees from Cape Cod Community College, UMASS Dartmouth, and Simmons College, before becoming Library Director at Brooks Free Library in Harwich. She moved to Mattapoisett and served as Library Director there, continuing to work through her illness and treatments until several months ago. Judy showed tremendous vision and drive in transforming both Harwich and Mattapoisett libraries into greatly expanded facilities with large collections and state-of-the-art technology resources. Survivors include her husband; 2 sons, Ian Kahn and his wife Staci of South Boston and Matthew Kahn of Boston; her brother and 5 sisters, Sharon Scharrer of Roanoke, VA, Rose Wallace of Eastham, MA, Gayle Wallace of Jacksonville, FL, William Wallace of Orleans, MA, Suzanne Wallace-Correiro of Hyannis and Tina Masciangioli of Arlington, VA; several nieces and nephews. A memorial service will be held on November 30 from 1-4 pm at the Mattapoisett Public Library. Private funeral arrangements are with the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home For Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6) Mattapoisett. Donations may be made to the Mattapoisett Library Trust P.O. Box 475, Mattapoisett, MA 02739 or to the American Cancer Society.

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Just BEEing Cute

In the spirit of better late than never, here are a few of our favorite pics from Mia's first Halloween. The buzz around South Boston was that Mia was the queen bee among the many cute little bees that pass through our areas seasonally in late October. For some of you, these pics may look familiar, as we have done some facebooking already. Still, we think these are good the first, second, third..... times around. Enjoy!
Mia's First Flying Lessons.

Check out all the strollers. Halloween is for the little ones.

Nothing but blues skies for Mia!



Saturday, October 31, 2009

scary babies




As first time parents on Halloween, Staci and I have already taken Mia to at least 3 different events in her Queen Bee costume (19.99 from Old Navy)....and as I type, it is 9:13am on the 31st, so we ain't done yet. To be sure, Mia is the cutest little Bee you've ever seen, and in our next post, we will show you just how much. For now, a few lessons learned for any of you that have not yet made it to your first Halloween as a parent:




  1. Babies don't really like Halloween. The Costumes are not as cozy as normal outfits. So truthfully, this is just a big indulgence for parents...showing off that fact that you have the cutest baby with the best costume, which is cool....as long as you understand not to feed your little one that crap that they hand out from door to door.

  2. Go for cute, not clever. Babies are supposed to be cute. Think aminals, bugs, princes and princesses, etc. We saw one yesterday dressed as a pirate and his stroller was rigged up as a pirate ship. That was cool! What is not cool are the costumes that are trying to be clever in a stupid, non-baby cute way. A few of the better examples are in the picture we posted here. The money bag is ridiculous. Makes me think of a bank robber movie. Dumb. Not baby cute.

  3. Go out early, stay up late. This is important. The little ones need to go out early, because the later it gets the more teenagers ruin it for everyone else. More importantly, the little ones need to stay up late! Remember, we are into daylight savings time starting tomorrow, so whatever time the've been getting up (usually 6am for Mia) will be an hour earlier tomorrow. We've been trying to turn her clock back for the last week, so with any luck we'll be okay...

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

crawl, stand, scale, walk, run....crash

After Staci left early for a PT conference this morning, I spent almost an hour this morning chasing Mia around the house until our Nanny arrived to take over. She is non-stop trouble these days, and she is not even walking yet. She does crawl but seemingly only for the purpose of positioning herself to get into trouble....her favorite page in teh playbook these days is to crawl to something that she can climb up on to a standing position, so she can be vertical for a while until she eventually wipes out....meaning, we basically need padded floors (rugs don't cut it). Needless to say, she falls a lot and has gotten her share of bumps and bruises already. Kind of traumatic at first, but we are getting used to it!